Yesterday it was my birthday. Yes, I turned 34, but I don't feel a year older than 33 years and 363 days ;) It was a quiet day, with just me and the kids and it was lovely.
The kids woke me up at 6 am, and they had set a breakfast table and we ate and I opened the presents from them. They got me a cat teddy, that I can "Hug when you miss Katsu" as they said. (Katsu is what they call my boyfriend who is currently living in Finland studying at university). They also got me a awesome rainbow pinata with candy, and I almost felt sad when we had to destroy it that afternoon.
While the kids were at school, I enjoy a completely selfcare day. Long shower, lots of coffee, and I managed to listen to a whole 6 hour audiobook. I played around a bit on social media and tried to keep up with all the congratulations.
When the kids got home we had coffee and cake, smashed the pinata (which was great fun even if it was sad to destroy it) and then my oldest was off to her first day in her new after school club. So me and the youngest had a fun night on the couch with pizza and movies.
And I got two absolutely beautiful bouquets of flowers delivered too.
First I got one from my parents. Since my birthday hit a workday they couldn't make it this year, so they sent me some absolutely wonderful autumn colored flowers.
And not long after another delivery guy arrived with the biggest bouquet of flowers I have ever gotten. Hehe it was so big I had to place it on the floor to get a full picture of it. As mentioned my boyfriend is in finland, which means that days like birthdays are sometimes held apart. So he sent me flowers and I have been told more surprises are to follow. Not sure what that means, but I do love surprises.
I hope you all have a wonderful week.
Hello all you lovely people :)
As some of you might have noticed, it's been a long time since I posted. 4 months actually.
Let's just say that 2019 haven't gone as planned. And I had planned it all. I had all my blog posts planned, and social media and everything else. And then life happened. But, I'm trying to make the rest of 2019 better. Gonna get back on the horse as they say <3
Good things have happened though.
I finally got my ankle operated and hopefully they got it fixed up. I still don't know what the future will bring, but I'm trying to be hopeful and if nothing else I'm hoping the pain that's been my constant companion for a year is finally going away, or at least gonna be better.
And of course, I've gotten to spend a lot of nice time with the boyfriend, and my and the kids went to Finland this summer to spend 12 days with him. It was absolutely lovely.
The last year haven't been good writing wise. The pain have drained my creativity, and it's been very sparse with any writing on my projects. But I'm slowly getting back into it, which feels so good. Just having the brain capacity to do it is such a freeing experience.
I hope you all had a great summer, and here's to a wonderful autumn.
April is done, gone and put away, and all that's left to do is look back at the month and reflect on how it went.
A to Z challenge:
Yup, I totally failed. I made it to day 15 and then life happened, and I totally got away from my good groove. I'm pretty annoyed with myself because I haf planned it all out, but I guess it just shows that even the best plans doesn't help you if you don't actually follow them. But, I'm not gonna be all sad about it. I'll just have to try better next year and plan even better. It's a lerning experience, and as long as I actually learned somethig from it I'm happy.
Easter was great. I went to my parents place and we celebrated my sons birthday, the kids got way to much chocolate (I still got some in the cupboard) and we had a nice easter dinner and lunch. We where super lucky, and had wonderful weather the easter days, so we got to grill in the garden, have a fire and make marshmellows, and go to the beach (though the only one crazy enough to go in the freezing water was my dad. The rest of us just soaked up some sun and relaxed on the sand while the kids played)
I started an Apartment garden. Basically, I've decided to try and grow veg indoors in a tiny apartment. What I have done is taken all the windowspace and simply used for eatable plants instead of flowers. So far I got two tomato plants, two bell peppers, and about 20 pots of salad growing. The idea came from watching a favorite program of mine, River Cottage. If you don't know the program its about this british guy who decides to leave the busy life in town and try and make it as a small holder in the british country, growing his own food, having a few animals and using what nature can give him. I like the idea, and got thinking that just because I live in a city in a small apartment, shouldn't mean I couldn't be more self sufficient. So project apartment garden started. Next up is me getting a fishing rod to see if I can catch my own meat hehe.
As some of you might have read, I did a january challenge of no sugar. You an read about it here, but bottom line is that while the first week sucked I got through it and felt so much better after. What it also showed me was that I can actually achieve my goals if I just put my head to it. So, at the beginning of april I started a diet. I've set myself a goal of getting rid of all the extra weight in 1 year. So i've been going to the gym and eatign healthy. Counting my calories, keeping from the sweets and cakes, and generally moving more. And while it sometimes is so hard, I'm feeling so much better.
So yeah, that's my April.
I hope you all had a great month.
My boyfriend and I live in two different countries. He's Finnish and is currently studying a degree in Finland, and I'm Danish and live with my two kids in Denmark.
Being so far from each other can be hard, especially on days where you just need a hug (thank the gods for free internet calls) But, it is also wonderful and bring so many wonderful things with it.
And it got the perk of traveling to another country when visiting each other.
My trip started very early a monday morning. It was so foggy and cold. In the middle picture above, you would normally be able to see this our local castle.
I walked to the train station and took the 4 hour long trainride to the airport. I was lucky and arrived in a quiet airport, so check-in and getting through security took less than 20 min.
The flight was uneventful, if you don't count my body's fucked up reaction to flying. Dry throat, couging, pain in my jaw and ears. But luckily the flight is only 1 hour and 35 min.
When I arrived at the airport it was filled with asian tourists being led around by travel agents. Apparently Helsinki airport is a big layover for asian tourists. With my perfect (-ly fuked up) sense of direction I of course missed my exit and ended up in the wrong arrival hall. My phone refused to go online or even find network so there was no way to contact my boyfriend who was waiting at another arrival point, and I had no idea how to find that place. Finally I managed to find a signal and got a message through to him. I'm pretty sure I looked like a lost puppy when he found me. Let's just say that being lost in a big airport filled with people speaking a language you don't understand, and not being able to find the person your meeting, after traveling around 9 hours, was not my idea of fun. Luckily he did find me, and we arrived safely at his house about an hour later. And then I fell promptly asleep on the couch after dinner. I'm such a romantic.
We spend the weeks doing all kinds of awesome things together. We took a daytrip to Tampere where we visited the museum and saw the Vampire Exhibit, along with some other cool exhibits.
We also spend a lot of time sight seeing the local area. Because of my ankle, walking long distances are limited, but we went a lot of places where we could drive most of the distance. Since it was February it was cold, but not nearly as cold as it could have been, and as a Dane, the snow was awesome. We don't really get a lot of snow here. And I think I said "ups" about a million time trying to walk around with all the ice on the roads hehe.
Finland is such a cool place and there is so much to see, and I totally recommend anyone having the chance, to go there.
A bit of background:
In july 2018 I hurt my ankle. Nobody knows what actually happened, but after a festival I came home with a hurting ankle. At first I thought it was just a sore ankle from walking around on grass/fields for a week, but the first day back at work had me in so much pain I had to call the doctor and go home early. Since then I have been in and out of hospitals and doctor appointments, and they still don’t know what is actually wrong with the damn thing.
But, going from 20k steps a day to around 4k steps wasn’t exactly good for my body. Sitting still every day, not working and being in pain wasn’t good for my diet either.
So, in January I took the step to cut out sugar for a whole month. Now, I knew it wasn’t going to be easy, and I knew I needed to decide exactly what sugar meant. After some looking around I decided that for me, it was all those empty calorie sugars I wanted to get rid of.
So, in January I cut out:
All added sugar
All soda (unless zero sugar)
All junkfood and ready to eat food
Generally food that I knew was filled with sugar
I started the day I returned from new year visits at my parents (January 5th).
And let me tell you, it was hard. It was so freaking hard I was ready to quit 20 times every single day. Those first ten days my body protested all the time. It needed sugar and junk food and was more than happy to tell me.
But, slowly it got better. And at the end of January I even managed to quit my beloved coke zero that I’ve been drinking for years and years. We’re now almost at the end of February, and I’m still keeping my sugar intake low. I’m not cutting out sugar completely, but try to keep it to a single tiny little sugary treat once a week or so. One week I enjoyed a bit of dark chocolate with blueberries (which was so good) and another week I baked a carrot cake with my kids.
Now for the important part, what happened?
Well, a lot happened. I feel better. I have more energy and actually sleep better at night. I don’t feel the need to eat constantly and that need to go look in the cupboards after dinner is almost gone. I also don’t crave fatty things as I did before. Also my craving for empty carbs have gone down a lot. White bread, pasta, white rice and so on was something I ate daily, and I don’t crave it anymore. I can happily eat a salad and feel full.
All in all since January 5th I’ve lost almost 4 kilos. Now keep in mind I haven’t gone totally healthy. I still eat gravy and cheese (all the cheese) and butter and bacon. I eat lots of nuts and dried fruits. And I still have freshly baked bread on Sunday. But even though my calorie intake is probably pretty high, I feel better and my system seems happier.
All in all this has been a really cool thing to go through, and I’m very set in not going back to the old ways. Feeling the difference between four months ago and now is so wild and it really shows how much I’ve “poisened” my body by stuffing it with all the wrong kind of things. So from now on my goal is to keep it to small treats instead of a daily dose.
Thank you for reading.
Do you ever play the game where you think, if I win the lottery I want… ??
I know the old saying that money can’t buy you happiness. Well, I’ll say that who ever came up with that saying never tried being poor. Because sure, having money wont make you happy, but being poor wont either. Being poor (or low income) is stressful.
So, if I won the lottery, here’s what I would do.
Well at first I’d probably faint or something stupid like hyperventilate and feel sick. I’d check, recheck, and then check once more, and probably wouldn’t actually believe it until the money was in my bank account. I would pay off all my dept, and make a saving account for both my kids to secure them when they move from home, so they can follow their dreams.
Then I’d buy a nice house. Not something stupidly big, because I’d feel so alone in a giant house when the kids are with their dad. But something nice, and with room enough to have guests.
I’d take my kids traveling so they can see the world. And I'd go travel with my boyfriend to see all the romantic places the world has to offer. And I'd travel to explore and meet people.
I’d go shopping for furniture. I love second hand furniture, and 95% of my furniture is second hand, but to be able to go to a store and choose the sofa I want, not the one I can afford, would be awesome.
Other than that, I would just enjoy life. Just the fact that I could go shopping for groceries and buy what I want and not what’s on sale. I guess it’s the small things that would make a difference.
Oh, and being a writer, I would get a nice office setup. I’d get big white boards, and bulletin boards on the walls for planning books. I’d have a nice desk with room enough for all my stuff (and where I don’t have to move it every time we eat) and a desk chair that doesn’t make my back go all stiff.
What’s your dreams if you won the lottery?
Hate it or love it, it's hard to ignore Valentine's day. It's on tv, in stores, on social media. It's absolutely everywhere.
Normally Valentine's Day is a day of flowers, romantic dinners and chocolate (all the chocolate). When your boyfriend is in another country, studying for four years, things is a bit different though. So today there’s gonna be a lot of messages and cute hearts and stuff send back and forth.
Luckily I’m going to spend all of week 9 with him, and we’ll make up for not spending valentine’s day together.
So, if you’re sitting alone today like me, I recommend a good book. Books make everything better <3
The Forgotten Beasts of Eld
I've not read this one myself, but a friend of mine have highly recommended it, and it's on my to read list.
Young Sybel, the heiress of powerful wizards, needs the company of no-one outside her gates. In her exquisite stone mansion, she is attended by exotic, magical beasts: Riddle-master Cyrin the boar; the treasure-starved dragon Gyld; Gules the Lyon, tawny master of the Southern Deserts; Ter, the fiercely vengeful falcon; Moriah, feline Lady of the Night. Sybel only lacks the exquisite and mysterious Liralen, which continues to elude her most powerful enchantments. But Sybel's solitude is to be shattered when a desperate soldier arrives bearing a mysterious child. Soon Sybel will discover that the world of men is full of love, deceit, and the temptations of vast power.
The Devil all the Time
If romance is not your thing, I recommend this book. It's one of my favourite books, and is absolutely amazing.
In the backwoods of Ohio, Willard Russell’s wife is succumbing to cancer, no matter how much he drinks, prays, or sacrifices animals at his "prayer log." Meanwhile, his son Arvin is growing up, from a kid bullied at school into a man who knows when to take action. Around them swirl a nefarious cast of characters—a demented team of serial killers, a spider-eating preacher, and a corrupt local sheriff—all braided into a riveting narrative of the grittiest American grain.
Have a wonderful day.
“If your office plant could talk, what would it say about you?”
So, today’s post is gonna be a little bit silly. I saw this on pinterest and thought it was a fun little thing to post about.
I mostly write at my dinning room table. I do have a very pretty old desk, but because it’s old it’s not the best to work at so I mostly use it for storing my computer when not working. And on my dinning room table, I got these two little cute plants. They are small enough to not take up too much room, and they fit my salt and pepper set perfectly <3
So, what would they say if they could talk?
Well, they would probably say that I sit at my computer too much. I do spend a lot of time in front of the screen. Between blogging, writing, editing, social media, updating websites and procrastinating, I spend a lot of my day in front of the screen. Less when my kids are here, more when they are with their dad.
And they would protest me forgetting to water them. I’m so bad a watering my plants and I generally can only keep things that are green alive. Add flowers to the mix and they will die in less than three weeks. Only exception is my peace lilies. But then, they don’t always have a flower.
Also coffee. Not just that I drink a lot of coffee, because I do, but also that I tend to forget about it halfway through the cup when I get caught up in something I’m doing and then end up drinking it cold (yes I’m one of those people).
That I re-watch the same shows on tv way to much. But, I just work better with sounds in the background. Sometimes it’s music but more often it’s some show. And yes, it’s old episodes that I’ve seen a hundred times before. If I put on new stuff I get distracted, but old shows is like an old friend. They just make a bit of noise in the background while I work.
That I look cute with my new glasses. Okay, I’m just saying that because I’m still a bit self conscious about my glasses. I’ve had them a few months now, and I’m still getting used to them.
That I’m way to obsessed with my planner. Which is true. I don’t deny it. But the planner is my lifeline for everything.
So yeah, I think that’s the biggest things the plants would talk about if they could.
What would your plants say about you? Let me know in the comments <3
This blog post was inspired by Hello Bexa's post about stationery essentials for bloggers.
It is no secret that I love notebooks. In fact I have a very hard time walking past a pretty looking notebook and not buy it. Even if the truth is that over the last year or so, I'm using notebooks less and less, and phone and computer more and more. But they are just sooo pretty.
But, If I'm not using that many notebooks any more, what do I use?
Well, let me show you
My planner is my most important tool. I use it for all my planning when it comes to writing, blogging, and social media. Without it I would be a ship lost at sea.
(If you're interested in knowing how I plan a whole year of blogging and social media, I'm doing a post about it Monday, January 28th)
The washi tape
Okay, so I admit I'm a bit of an washi tape addict. But I do use it a lot. Mostly I use it in my planner. Every day I have a planned blogpost, I mark it with one specific color so it's easy to find. National and international funny days (chocolate day and coffee day anyone?) is also marked with their own color. Publishing dates, another color, and so on. It makes it easy to find the right days, and it's a great visualization tool.
Yes, I know I said I have gone electronic, mostly. But I still like to always have a notebook beside me when i work, just like I have one in my bag in case inspiration strikes.
Pencils, erasers, tape, and sketchbook
I try to only use pencils in my planner as I like to have the option of erasing and moving stuff around. I made the mistake of beginning the year with using a pen, and every time i see those black letters I get a little bit annoyed at myself. Because I use pencils I of course also need a few erasers. And because I sometimes need to put something in my planner where washi tape isn't useful, I have normal clear tape. I also have a stabler, but didn't remember to take a picture of it. It's white, and boring, and looks like a stabler hehe.
My sketchbook is my last stationery I'm gonna talk about. If I feel stuck on a project, drawing helps so much. I used to just do it on random pieces of paper, but I saw this one on January sale and just had to buy it. It's still completely unused, but I'm sure that'll change soon.
I think that was it :) Of course I got like a million other things. Stickers, colored pencils, pens in all shapes and sizes, colored paper and so on, but the things in this post, are the things I use every single day. Except the scethbook, but it's pretty so I got to join the other things hehe.
What kind of stationery do you use and love?
Today is National clean your desk day.
It's a perfect opportunity to start fresh, and get a clean slate to start on. There's something satisfying and mentally pleasing when your desk is clean.
This year I went a step further and completely cleared my desk. I removed everything, wiped it down, and I'm only putting the things I really want, back in the desk.
I'm a bit of a hoarder. Not the bad, fill your house with junk kind of hoarder, but I do like stuff and it can have a tendency to sneak up on me. So one of my new years resolutions is to clean out. Scale back. So over the next week, I'm going through every piece that used to clutter my desk and only keeping the things I really need or love.
Here's to a fresh start.
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